Quite strange to realize it but for many couples the idea of open marriage is absolutely okay. To tell the truth I could hardly be happy in open marriage. But it turns out that many couples decide to change their lives for the better. The scenario is almost the same. Spouses spend most of the time with their kids and it looks like they are happy family. It’s an ordinary situation. Well, of course they are happy. But their family is different. Other days or nights they spend with their lovers. And both of them are okay with it. It seems to be really wonderful as they are not jealous. Actually both of them are able to admit that it strengthens their marriage. A wife doesn’t care her husband is with someone else because she is also with someone else. The very idea is pretty strange. But those people seem to be brave I would say. They are sharing experiences with each other. I’ve read some articles of open marriage partners. They are happy that it is possible for them to be in a open marriage. Why do they decide to do it? Probably because the marriage as we used to think of it is too boring for them. They continue doing what they always have been done. It is not about cheating or betraying. It is mainly about openness and understanding. As the rule spouses let their kids into their lifestyles. And the kids are okay with it. They spend the time with their parents’ lovers as well.
Many men feel lack of sex in his marriage. Newlyweds don’t face this problem that often in comparison with the couples where people live together for many years. When a wife refuses to have sex, it becomes a disaster for a loving husband. There could appear irreversible consequences from humiliation to treason.
It is important for men just to understand their wives. Physiologically women don’t need as much sex as they are potentially capable of.
Sexual attraction of women differs from men sexual attraction. Men have mostly physical attraction – they see a beautiful lady and they want her at once. Women’s psychology and physiology are connected strongly: she feels good, she’s loved and she wants a man. If men refuse to have sex with ladies because of their physical exhaustion, women may lose sexual attraction on the ground of moral reasons.
We all know how to attract the opposite sex. We are born with it. But to stay together, to be happy, to make your partner happy – it is a challenge. Here I am going to speak about how you can keep your man. It doesn’t mean we (women) need it more than men though; they should try to make relationships work just as hard as we do.
Steve Harvey believes that every man needs only three things: Support, Loyalty and Sex. I say support is what every person needs, it’s natural. Harvey believes that if you love your husband, support him, and are loyal to him, sex is just what comes naturally. And of course he is right. He also says that if man doesn’t build his career, he will not be able to focus on your relationship. And I agree – for men career comes first: money and a place to live are the basic needs of any person, and of course a man can’t focus on you / wedding / marriage / kids if he didn’t build a career yet. And in this case he needs your support.