How to Turn Fathership into Friendship

Fathership can become a series of ordeals or a friendship which will last for the rest of your life – in this case everything depends on you. If you want to make the process of bringing up your child pleasant and effortless you should observe some simple rules of communication with your kid.

Speaking to your child is essential. However, it may appear to be not very interesting to talk to a small person who has not developed his own set of views and opinions yet. The solution is simple – read to your child. First of all, the kid will learn to listen to you and hear you which may prove very useful in future. Moreover, this direct communication will help you to build connection with your child.

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Open marriage

Quite strange to realize it but for many couples the idea of open marriage is absolutely okay. To tell the truth I could hardly be happy in open marriage. But it turns out that many couples decide to change their lives for the better. The scenario is almost the same. Spouses spend most of the time with their kids and it looks like they are happy family. It’s an ordinary situation. Well, of course they are happy. But their family is different. Other days or nights they spend with their lovers. And both of them are okay with it. It seems to be really wonderful as they are not jealous. Actually both of them are able to admit that it strengthens their marriage. A wife doesn’t care her husband is with someone else because she is also with someone else. The very idea is pretty strange. But those people seem to be brave I would say. They are sharing experiences with each other. I’ve read some articles of open marriage partners. They are happy that it is possible for them to be in a open marriage. Why do they decide to do it? Probably because the marriage as we used to think of it is too boring for them. They continue doing what they always have been done. It is not about cheating or betraying. It is mainly about openness and understanding. As the rule spouses let their kids into their lifestyles. And the kids are okay with it. They spend the time with their parents’ lovers as well.

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I want to change my life.

Are you tired of everything? And you have no idea what to do? Well, you may try to change your life for the better. I would like to share the tips that would probably help you. So let’s get started.

First of all you should realize what you want to get in your life. I mean some people live their lives aimlessly. It may sound strange but you may even write down what you want to get and what you want to do in your life that haven’t done yet.

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How to Help Children to Cope With the Grief

Our life is full of various events that may be either pleasant or sorrowful. Even the adults re not always able to cope with their grief. The children haven’t developed the adequate mechanisms of psychological self-defense. That’s why they need help to cope with their emotional burden.

Of course any loss is a serious event that matters a lot for a child. The loss of a favorite toy, a pet or even a relative may appear to be a hard strike for the child’s fragile and sensitive psychics.

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