Open marriage

Quite strange to realize it but for many couples the idea of open marriage is absolutely okay. To tell the truth I could hardly be happy in open marriage. But it turns out that many couples decide to change their lives for the better. The scenario is almost the same. Spouses spend most of the time with their kids and it looks like they are happy family. It’s an ordinary situation. Well, of course they are happy. But their family is different. Other days or nights they spend with their lovers. And both of them are okay with it. It seems to be really wonderful as they are not jealous. Actually both of them are able to admit that it strengthens their marriage. A wife doesn’t care her husband is with someone else because she is also with someone else. The very idea is pretty strange. But those people seem to be brave I would say. They are sharing experiences with each other. I’ve read some articles of open marriage partners. They are happy that it is possible for them to be in a open marriage. Why do they decide to do it? Probably because the marriage as we used to think of it is too boring for them. They continue doing what they always have been done. It is not about cheating or betraying. It is mainly about openness and understanding. As the rule spouses let their kids into their lifestyles. And the kids are okay with it. They spend the time with their parents’ lovers as well.

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I want to change my life.

Are you tired of everything? And you have no idea what to do? Well, you may try to change your life for the better. I would like to share the tips that would probably help you. So let’s get started.

First of all you should realize what you want to get in your life. I mean some people live their lives aimlessly. It may sound strange but you may even write down what you want to get and what you want to do in your life that haven’t done yet.

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How to Help Children to Cope With the Grief

Our life is full of various events that may be either pleasant or sorrowful. Even the adults re not always able to cope with their grief. The children haven’t developed the adequate mechanisms of psychological self-defense. That’s why they need help to cope with their emotional burden.

Of course any loss is a serious event that matters a lot for a child. The loss of a favorite toy, a pet or even a relative may appear to be a hard strike for the child’s fragile and sensitive psychics.

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How to get rid of nightmares.

From time to time all of us see nightmares. And it is absolutely okay. Usually we have nightmares because of problems and stresses in life. It is simply inevitable. But when you have nightmares too often it can be disturbing. You would feel devastated and exhausted. It may cause some serious emotional problems including depression. Pay attention to it. It is a sign you should take actions.

First of all you should try to understand what reasons could trigger bad dreams. Our dreams reflect our worries. Usually it happens so. Try to change your attitude to the situation. Of course it depends on the situation. But if it is a symptom of stress then you should relax and get rid of negative feelings. The easiest way is to go to bed. But if you see bad dreams it would hardly help you. No doubts you would be more disturbed and irritated. It is recommended to go for a walk before sleeping. It would be much better for you and much more helpful to meditate or do yoga.

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Music and Christianity

According to the early Christian views The positive power of music coordinates to the prayer and even tends to take its place. The euphony is associated with the God and the most explicit way of praising Him. A musician receives the role of a priest to some extend as he possesses the mystery and masters the instrument that awakens the feeling of the God’s grace and creates harmony to soothe the rebelling hearts.

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